Types of adult parties

There are different types of adult party, and what goes on at specific venues up and down the country is revealed in more detail in the individual venue pages. Click on one of the regions in the left hand column to take a tour of some them after reading the more general guidelines below.

Many couples dress in much the same way as they would for a friend's birthday party or any other kind of informal evening. Jeans and trainers are banned at some venues and it is better to ere on the side of smart casual clothes if you are going to attend wearing conventional clothing.
Not everyone is quite so unadventurous however, and we encourage people to wear as little as they dare. A room full of conventionally dressed people is not what adult parties should be about and it doesn't exactly inspire uninhibited behaviour.

Ideally, ladies should dress in lingerie or otherwise very revealing garments. Occasionally naturists attend wearing only their birthday suits under the coat they arrive in. The great thing about total nudity is that it is equally suitable for males and females whereas there are not too many male alternatives for the partner of a lingerie clad female. (Usually he opts for the conventional smart casual stuff - boring though it may be!)

If you are a couple, you may prefer parties where unaccompanied single males are not allowed to attend. Nearly all venues offer this kind of party and you will be able to attend a couples only (or "Swingers Party") every week of the year at numerous venues up and down the country (See locations and examples of Venues).
Some parties involve little more than discreet partner swapping whilst others are outright orgies with writhing naked bodies performing group sex everywhere.

However uninhibited the behaviour may be, everyone's limits are respected and nervous newcomers are warmly welcomed without ever being subjected to any pressure to join in.

Single males need not feel discouraged by the fact that swinger parties are for couples only. One of the big advantages for single males in joining Club Aphrodite is the help we give you in finding a partner. When you find someone through our immense database of contacts or from any other source, you can attend couples only parties as well as those events that allow you attend unaccompanied (See below)

For couples who do not mind a few single males being present, and for singles who like to party with a mixed group of single females, couples and single males, mixed parties are held at the majority of venues in most parts of the country.

As with swinger parties, there is no need for newcomers to feel nervous and no one ever pressurises you to do things you don't want to. The activities at mixed parties are very similar to those at couples parties, ranging from flirtatious socialising through to unbridled group sex The number of single males attending unaccompanied is limited by the overall number of guests and the number of females attending. We do not allow parties to take place where there is likely to be a noticeable imbalance of males to females.

Mixed parties are available most weeks and provided you apply in plenty of time for an invitation, you will usually be able to attend if you are an unaccompanied single male.
Having said that, most of single male members prefer to use our contact service to ensure that they have a female to attend parties with. Some simply ask a female friend along (You'd be surprised just how many ladies there are there who are just waiting to be asked!) Others use the services of other agencies in addition to our own. We don't mind who you bring along as long as they are not a reporter!

These are adult parties for thoroughly insatiable ladies who enjoy the attentions of several males at a time. There is a fine distinction between the activities at a Vixens party and a gang-bang. A gang-bang tends to be one group of males servicing one lady, whereas a Vixens or Greedy Girl party proceeds very much along the lines of a mixed party but with a higher ratio of males to females. When the moment is right groups will form and sexual activity takes place between a range of different combination. Some might be the one girl in a "Gang-Bang" situation but more likely are combinations such as two ladies and four or five men, alternating with others who may be waiting to join in. One of the girls might retire to a one to situation for a while or be replaced by another.
It varies from night to night but Vixens parties always offer a great opportunity for males who prefer to attend unaccompanied.

Adult dinner parties are the ultimate combination of sexual and gastronomic pleasure. Most parties are themed, ranging from nude dining to simple colour themes such as black for the men and white for the ladies. Champagne, top quality wines and imaginative food, are served accompanied by at the table foreplay and after meal group sex.

You may want to get into the adult fun scene but still feel a little unsure about attending adult parties and joining in with group sex. Although our adult contacts system will provide you with plenty of opportunities to meet other broadminded adults on a one to one, or couple to couple basis, you like the idea of meeting up with larger numbers of people at a specific place and time. The problem is, you don't feel quite ready to attend a party where there's a lot of overt sexual activity.
If this is how you feel, attending a "Soft-Swing" adult party is the answer. These are parties where the emphasis is on the socialising and not too much happens sexually. That isn't to say that NOTHING ever happens. There is certainly no rule against popping into a less public area and enjoying some fun with someone you meet at a soft-swing party. More likely though is that soft swing party guests will make arrangements with people they like to meet again, or perhaps attend one of those other, naughtier kind of parties with them later on.

The vast majority of swingers are not naturists and the vast majority of naturists are not swingers, This leaves, however, a significant minority of people who are both, and who like to enjoy sexually active events which are attended only by people who enjoy being naked from their arrival until their departure. Especially popular with naturist swingers are parties that have access to outdoors. Remote beaches, heath land and forests can feature as venues - when the weather permits!