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Keys to a Successful Swinger Lifestyle

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Key tips for Single Female Swingers

This page of our swinger lifestyle guide provides some key tips for single females who are about to embark on the lifestyle.
Sadly but inevitably there are always less single female swingers on the swing-scene than there are couple swingers or single males. This has always been the case and always will be.

Swinger Females Need For Support

The relatively low proportion of single female swingers probably accounts for the lack of support and guidance directed specifically at them and available on adult dating sites, swinger club sites and in other resources and articles where advice for swingers generally can be found.
This lack of support and guidance must have a compounding effect on the numbers of single females embarking on the swinger lifestyle. Without sound advice and encouragement, it can be quite difficult and daunting even for couples, to take the necessary first steps towards living the swinger lifestyle. So given their extra layer of vulnerability, it would not be surprising if single females were even more likely to be put off going through with their desires to start swinging.
The key areas that are most likely to present obstacles to continuing with the pursuit of the lifestyle are:

  1. Contacting other swingers via adult dating sites
  2. Meeting up
  3. Attending sex parties

Adult Dating Site Contacts

For a single female, the process of contacting other swingers via an adult dating site can be a more daunting task than it is for single males or couples.
There are at least two reasons for this:

  1. The extra dimension of risk a single female has to face when arranging hook-ups with strangers. There can even be risks in arranging meetings with couples. For example, only the male half of a swinger couple might turn up for the date, bringing some sort of excuse for his missing partner!
  2. Being inundated with requests and choices. This is something that single males are unlikely to have to face but when you're already starting to feel some anxiety about the vulnerability issue, being spoilt for choices and having to read through dozens of messages from quite clearly unsuitable admirers, might be the final straw.

Whilst it would be dishonest to claim that either of these issues can be completely eliminated by any adult dating site, we feel justifiably proud of the procedures our online adult dating club has put in place to reduce the risks and filter out a great deal of time-wasting messages and requests which are prevalent on other dating sites.

Meeting other Swingers

Meeting up with a stranger to explore compatibility for a purely recreational sex relationship requires quite a bit of courage and care. All of the safety advice that applies to mainstream or romance dating applies equally to adult dating and we do not intend to go over them all here.
Let us look instead at the different ways a single female might proceed along her swinger lifestyle path.

Staying Completely Single

A single female may choose to stay completely single and still be able to partake in all the hedonistic, pleasures the swinger lifestyle offers. By 'staying single' we mean going to sex parties alone and enjoying group sex without being unaccompanied by a specific partner.

Hooking up with Bi-Females

Some single females who are bi-sexual may prefer to start off by using an online adult dating site, such as Club Aphrodite, to hook up with other bi-females who want to enjoy the swinger lifestyle. Together, the two females can partner one another to attend swinger parties as a bi-female couple.

Hooking up with Single Males

Attending swinger clubs and sex parties with a partner of the opposite sex is for many, the ultimate way of enjoying the swinger lifestyle and hooking up with a single male via an adult dating site means that you can choose how permanent you want the relationship to be.
A single female should have little difficulty in finding a sufficient choice of single males for casual partnerships to be able to attend sex parties accompanied by a different one nearly every time, if that is what she wanted to do.
On the other hand, she might prefer to look for a single male with whom she can experience and develop a longer term relationship as swinger couple.

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