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Keys to a Successful Swinger Lifestyle

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How Singles Can Enjoy A Swinger Lifestyle

It is a common misconception amongst some swingers that single males are excluded from the swinger lifestyle. This probably stems from the fact that swinging is often defined as couple partner swapping and also that many swinger couples are only interested in that particular swinger lifestyle activity.

Provided single males understand and accept that some couples do not want them to be part of the swing scene, they will find plenty of others who welcome them and plenty of opportunities to enjoy the lifestyle to the full.

Swinging Is About More Than Wife-Swapping

In reality, swinging is about more than wife or partner swapping and includes practically all varieties of group sex from threesomes to Greedy Girl orgy sex or even gang-bangs and reverse gang-bangs. Many swinger couples and single females enjoy all of these activities and are always on the outlook for single males to join them.

Adult Dating Opens the Door

The key to opening the door to a swinging lifestyle for single males is undoubtedly joining a good Adult Dating site. By joining ours you will have access to the largest, nationwide database of single females and swinger couples eager to hook up with single males for group-sex fun.
By going about things the right way single males can enjoy just as fulfilling a swinger lifestyle as couples can. Start by making it your first goal to have some MFM threesomes with swinger couples. Then, using the experience and contacts you will have made by attaining this goal, move on to your first FFM threesome fun and attending sex parties. Your ultimate goal should be to regularly attend swinger parties with single females to partner you.

Sex Parties that Accept Single Males

Whilst you are still building your relationships with swinger couples looking for MFM threesomes, you might want to start attending sex parties that allow a quota of unaccompanied single males. You can go to this type of party alone or you might want to consider inviting a single female or one of the couples you have got to know to attend with you.
The advantages of this kind of sex party are threefold: Firstly they provide you with experience. Secondly, single males can attend without having a partner. Thirdly, they are another source of useful contacts.
There are also some disadvantages: Firstly, there is often a fee for unaccompanied single males to attend. Secondly, because quota systems limiting the number of single males attending a sex party normally operate, you will need to book a place in advance. Thirdly, there are a few so called swinger clubs around that offer seedy sex parties where the only females attending are prostitutes providing a very limited and mechanical service.

Swinger Clubs and Parties for Couples

The ultimate pleasures of a swinger lifestyle come about when the single male has regular and unlimited access to group sex in all its forms, including partner swapping. By definition, this can only be achieved when the single male has either a regular swing-partner or has a pool of single female contacts he can reliably draw partners from more or less at will.
It is when this stage is reached that the door to couple-only swinger clubs and swinger parties is opened. Most of the top clubs list their swinger party events on our members events calendar so you can easily find out what's on at any given time. They offer some very good parties and facilities but in some ways the swinger club event experience can fall short of that experienced at good private house parties. There is something very special about the erotically charged, highly intimate atmosphere that envelopes a well hosted swinger party in a private house of the right type. Most events of this kind are only available to members who are invited. When the single male has reached the stage where his network of swinger couples and single females makes it easy for him to attend regular swinger parties, the invitations to attend the privately hosted events will also become an everyday part of his swinger lifestyle.

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This page is based on one of the sections of our invaluable swinger lifestyle guide: Keys to a Successful Swinger Lifestyle.
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