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How Swingers Use Body Language

The art of reading and responding to body language is an important one for swingers to master.
Body language generally conveys more than half of the communication which goes on between people in face to face situations. That being the case in everyday social and business communication, it follows that when an agenda is essentially a sexual one, an even larger chunk of the communication is conveyed by body language.

Successful swinging - how to read swinger body language

Swingers Sexual Body Language Signals

With so much communication being conveyed non-verbally in face to face meetings, it is essential for swingers to read the hidden and mainly unconscious signals of body language. It is equally important to know how to respond appropriately to them.
The key area of body language for swingers is Sexual Body Language. Sexual body language uses the following types of signal:

Body Language at a Sex Party

When you engage in conversations with other swingers at a sex party you need to be able to distinguish between social chatting and sexual chatting. A lot of people, especially swinger couples, get almost as much enjoyment from the socialising aspect of swinger events as they do from the sexual one.
Kitchens and bar areas are favourite places at sex party venues for meeting and chatting. Many of the conversations that take place in these areas can go on for most of the evening without leading to sex.
Newcomers to the swinger lifestyle need to be especially aware of this to prevent the evening slipping past them without ever getting around to any sexual activity. They can do this by mastering the art of watching out for and responding to the sexual body language signals described above. Noticing any signals within the first ten minutes of a conversation strongly indicates that you a talking to people who are wanting you to reciprocate by confirming your interest in being their swing-partner. The absence of any of these signals within a similar period of time should be seen as a reason to move on to chat with someone else. Sometimes you will even pick up negative signals that should always be responded to by withdrawing and moving on.

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