Since the very beginnings of Club Aphrodite, we have met many who are apprehensive about going to a full blown swinger party. Even some single males experience sufficient anxiety to prevent them turning up on the night of the party. We have also witnessed both couples and singles walking out of parties as soon as they get there because their nerve has failed them.
Many couples are excited and drawn to the swingerlifestyle because of the opportunities it gives for flirtatious socializing.
They may not feel ready for - or even ever likely to want - a full couple swap. Instead, the appeal is to find and hook-up with
other broad minded couples with whom they can share the naughty type of intimate conversations that would promote shock, embarrassment
and even ostracisation elsewhere.
Hooking up with another couple for this kind of flirting might well lead gently in the direction of something more physical at a later meeting. In many cases it does but the point is that it doesn't have to. Soft swingers just take things slowly and no farther than they want to.
An Essex group, based in Harlow, may have come up with a solution to this dilemma. They have been organising and holding social 'Soft Swinger Meet-Ups' in a pub. For those who want things to go a bit further than flirtatious chat, the swinger friendly venue is able to offer discrete private rooms and the meet-up parties are totally secure from any public area. The landlord is swinger tolerant and completely happy to close of the pub for these purposes.
Corrine, the local organiser holds the Soft Swing Meet-Ups on Friday night every two weeks. There is usually a turn-out of twenty or so guests, comprised of mainly couples and a few singles. The numbers of regulars has been steadily growing and the venue's reputation is beginning to spread beyond the immediate area.
The pleasant and relaxing environment is clean and softly furnished. The lighting is subdued and
creates an erotically charged atmosphere.
For all those who need a gentle introduction into the swinger party scene, these soft swinger meet ups appear to provide a popular answer
Sign up and attend Soft Swinger Meet Ups